in White Plains, NY

PARNETING COORDINATOR

Co-parenting after a divorce or separation is hard. When communication has broken down and every decision about your children turns into a battle, it can feel like there is no way forward. There is.

As an experienced parenting coordinator serving White Plains, Westchester County, and the greater Tri-State Area, Adam J. Halper helps parents move from conflict to cooperation — with their children's well-being at the center of every decision.

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WHAT IS PARENTING COORDINATION?

What Is a Parenting Coordinator?

A parenting coordinator (PC) is a neutral professional — typically an attorney or mental health expert with specialized training — who helps divorced or separated parents resolve ongoing disputes about their children. The process is designed for parents who have already worked through a divorce or custody order but continue to experience conflict in implementing it.

Parenting coordination is a structured, child-focused intervention. It is not therapy and it is not mediation. It is a practical, solutions-oriented process focused on one thing: helping your children thrive.

A parenting coordinator helps parents navigate:

• Day-to-day scheduling and parenting time disputes
• Decisions about schooling, extracurricular activities, and childcare
• Medical and behavioral health appointments and treatment decisions
• Holiday schedules and vacation planning
• Communication between co-parents
• Implementing and adjusting existing court orders

COURT-ORDERED VS. VOLUNTARY

Court-Ordered or Voluntary — We Can Help Either Way

Parenting coordination can come about in two ways. Sometimes a judge orders parenting coordination as part of a custody proceeding — particularly in high-conflict cases. Other times, parents choose it voluntarily because they recognize they need a neutral third party to help them work through recurring disagreements.

Either way, the goal is the same: less conflict, clearer communication, and a more stable home environment for your children. Whether this is a court referral or your own decision, we are here to help.

WHY ADAM J. HALPER

A Parenting Coordinator You Can Trust

Adam J. Halper is a mediator, collaborative attorney, and parenting coordinator based in White Plains, New York. He has extensive training in parenting coordination, dispute resolution, and family law — and he brings that expertise, along with genuine patience and care, to every family he works with.

Adam currently serves on the roster of neutrals for the American Arbitration Association, several New York State Courts, and the Southern and Eastern Districts of New York. He has also spoken and written extensively on dispute resolution, mediation, and conflict within families.

He understands, on a practical and human level, what it takes to help parents communicate better — and what is at stake when they cannot.

"In mediation with Adam, we spoke together as parents for the first time in a long time." — D.L.

"Child custody is a very difficult thing. Adam was very easy to work with and helped us both find a common ground that worked for both of us. Extremely professional and accommodating."— E.C.

HOW IT WORKS

What to Expect from the Process

Every family's situation is different, and parenting coordination is flexible enough to reflect that.

Generally, the process works like this:

Initial consultation — We talk about your situation, your children, and what is not working. No judgment. Just listening.
Agreement or court order — We establish the framework for how the parenting coordination process will work, including scope, decision-making authority, and communication guidelines.
Ongoing sessions — We meet as needed — sometimes together, sometimes separately — to work through specific issues and decisions.
Resolution and documentation — When decisions are reached, they are documented clearly so both parents have a record they can follow.

We serve clients in White Plains, throughout Westchester County, and across the Tri-State Area. Virtual sessions are available for families outside the immediate area.

IS THIS RIGHT FOR MY FAMILY?

Is Parenting Coordination Right for Your Family?

Parenting coordination tends to work well when:

You and your co-parent have a court order but struggle to implement it consistently
Disputes about the children are frequent and difficult to resolve on your own
Communication between you and your co-parent has broken down
You want to resolve co-parenting issues without returning to court
A judge has recommended or ordered parenting coordination as part of your case

If you are not sure whether parenting coordination is the right fit for your situation, the best next step is a conversation. We will listen to what you are dealing with and give you an honest assessment of what might help.

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RELATED SERVICES

Other Ways We Can Help

Parenting coordination is just one of the ways we help families find resolution.

Depending on your situation, you may also benefit from:

Divorce mediation — Work through the terms of your divorce in a private, structured process without going to court.
Collaborative divorce — A team-based approach to divorce that prioritizes cooperation and keeps families out of the courtroom.
Consulting / reviewing attorney — Already working with a mediator? We can review your agreements and make sure your rights are protected before you sign.

Not sure what you need? Call us and we will help you figure it out.

CONTACT SECTION

Ready to Move Forward?

Conflict does not have to define your co-parenting relationship. With the right support, most parents find a way to communicate better — and their children are better for it.

Adam J. Halper serves families in White Plains, Westchester County, and throughout the Tri-State Area. Virtual sessions are available for clients anywhere.

Adam J. Halper, Esq.
914-979-1245 | Adam@newyorkadr.com
445 Hamilton Avenue, Suite 1102
White Plains, New York 10601

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